El maltratador de Carmina, terminó en el barranco

Por Juan Santana.

Sentado tomando un cortado, una señora que dice tener setenta y cinco años, aunque parece mayor, comienza hablar conmigo, sin miedo, deseando que alguien escuche su historia y por su forma de expresarse de buenas formas, miro sus ojos y sigue muy ilusionada contándome un resumen de su vida. Entonces, le dije que colaboraba en un periódico y da permiso para compartir su historia con quiénes voluntariamente lean y aprovecho para agradecerte, que regales un poco de tiempo leyendo, porque el tiempo, es el tesoro más valioso del ser humano, el tiempo pasa y jamás volverá. La señora en estos momentos, comenta que vive feliz, libre, tranquila y tiene buenas amigas, nietos y un hijo que quiere con toda su alma, sin olvidar el sufrimiento del pasado, por culpa de su fallecido marido, pero falleció de malas maneras, que luego comprobarán. Carmina, es el nombre de esta nueva amiga y no esconde su nombre, porque dice, que hablará con su hijo, para que lea la carta, con un resumen de cómo fue vivir con un maltratador (vivir con minúscula), pero ahora Vive con mayúscula, porque siente ser libre después de los dolores.

Jamás la maltrató físicamente, pero psicológicamente tuvo millones de insultos a su persona y el maltrato psicológico provoca serios problemas mentales para la víctima y muchos sabemos que dicho maltrato psicológico puede ser silencioso en ocasiones y devastador para la persona que lo sufre. La baja autoestima puede ser tanto una causa como una consecuencia de que este fenómeno se manifieste, pero, además, la víctima del maltrato emocional suele sufrir problemas serios, como estrés, ansiedad, depresión e incluso adicción a sustancias psicoactivas. ¿Cómo son las personas maltratadoras?. Son intolerantes, encantadoras al principio, son autoritarios porque se caracterizan por poseer rasgos antidemocráticos e intransigentes, con un pensamiento rígido y persiguen una única verdad,…. la suya, son chantajistas y para ellos todo está bien o está mal, no saben encajar las críticas y critican a los demás con gran facilidad y cambian de humor en segundos. Este tipo de personas malas o enfermas se sienten ofendidas con facilidad y hacen que la víctima se sienta amenazada y tenga miedo a hablar con otras personas, pero jamás se arrepienten de sus daños y en muchos casos olvidan el mal que hacen, prometiendo ser buenos y no volver a repetir sus errores y son controladores, a pesar de no tener control emocional. Son personas mentirosas, son un asco, aunque den pena en muchos casos, a sus seres queridos, porque el amor es el amor.

Carmina, contó mucho y escribiré muy poco, porque son muchas personas sufren en el mundo el maltrato, sin entrar en detalles. Su difunto marido, olvidaba a su hijo en los bares, cuando estaba borracho, perseguía a Carmina por donde quiera que iba cuando llegaba a su casa, ella y su hijo, esperaban con mucho miedo. Su hijo escondido bajo las mantas, escuchando los insultos de su padre a su madre bajo los efectos del alcohol. Un día que llegó muy borracho, despierta y viste a su hijo y camina muchos kilómetros en la noche, pero ya estaba acostumbrada a salir huyendo, antes de que pasara algo peor. No le perdonó jamás y un día llamaron por teléfono a su casa, para comunicarle que encontraron muerto a su marido en un barranco, con los pies comidos por los animales. El consejo que Carmina desea compartir, es que cuando tengas un maltratador cerca, aléjate antes de que sea tarde. ¿Qué más puedo escribir?…..


30 Commentarios en "El maltratador de Carmina, terminó en el barranco"

  1. I just want to tell you that I’m beginner to blogging and definitely savored your web-site. Almost certainly I’m want to bookmark your website . You really have fabulous article content. Thanks a bunch for revealing your blog site.

  2. Thank you for all of your efforts on this web page. My mum takes pleasure in managing internet research and it’s really easy to see why. Many of us learn all relating to the powerful medium you provide reliable strategies by means of the blog and in addition inspire contribution from the others about this area then our child is now learning a lot of things. Take advantage of the remaining portion of the year. You are always doing a splendid job.

  3. Thanks for your handy post. As time passes, I have come to be able to understand that the actual symptoms of mesothelioma are caused by this build up connected fluid relating to the lining of your lung and the breasts cavity. The condition may start while in the chest place and get distributed to other areas of the body. Other symptoms of pleural mesothelioma include weight-loss, severe breathing in trouble, a fever, difficulty eating, and infection of the neck and face areas. It ought to be noted that some people having the disease never experience any kind of serious symptoms at all.

  4. Hello there, I found your web site by the use of Google while looking for a similar subject, your website came up, it appears good. I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.

  5. Normally I do not read post on blogs, but I would like to say that this write-up very pressured me to take a look at and do so! Your writing taste has been surprised me. Thanks, quite great post.

  6. you are in point of fact a good webmaster. The website loading velocity is amazing. It kind of feels that you are doing any unique trick. Furthermore, The contents are masterpiece. you have done a fantastic process in this matter!

  7. What i do not realize is actually how you’re no longer actually a lot more neatly-appreciated than you might be now. You’re very intelligent. You know therefore significantly in the case of this subject, made me in my opinion believe it from so many varied angles. Its like men and women are not interested except it’s something to accomplish with Girl gaga! Your personal stuffs nice. All the time care for it up!

  8. As soon as I found this website I went on reddit to share some of the love with them.

  9. I went over this web site and I believe you have a lot of wonderful information, saved to bookmarks (:.

  10. Thank you, I have recently been looking for info about this subject for a long time and yours is the best I have found out so far. But, what about the bottom line? Are you positive in regards to the source?

  11. Very nice style and design and great content material , very little else we require : D.

  12. I like what you guys are up too. Such intelligent work and reporting! Carry on the superb works guys I’ve incorporated you guys to my blogroll. I think it will improve the value of my site 🙂

  13. Some truly select posts on this website , saved to my bookmarks .

  14. I and also my guys ended up checking out the best tips and hints located on your site then immediately came up with an awful suspicion I had not thanked you for those tips. All of the young boys had been glad to read all of them and already have simply been using those things. Appreciate your truly being so kind and then for considering certain fabulous information millions of individuals are really desirous to know about. My very own honest apologies for not saying thanks to you sooner.

  15. Dead written articles , appreciate it for selective information .

  16. Nice read, I just passed this onto a friend who was doing some research on that. And he actually bought me lunch since I found it for him smile Thus let me rephrase that: Thank you for lunch! “The capacity to care is what gives life its most deepest significance.” by Pablo Casals.

  17. Terrific work! This is the type of info that should be shared around the net. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher! Come on over and visit my web site . Thanks =)

  18. My coder is trying to convince me to move to .net from PHP. I have always disliked the idea because of the costs. But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using WordPress on numerous websites for about a year and am anxious about switching to another platform. I have heard great things about blogengine.net. Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress content into it? Any help would be really appreciated!

  19. Thank you for every other informative web site. Where else could I get that kind of info written in such a perfect method? I’ve a venture that I’m just now running on, and I have been on the glance out for such information.

  20. “Thanks for your tips on this blog. One thing I want to say is that purchasing electronic products items in the Internet is not new. Actually, in the past ten years alone, the market for online gadgets has grown substantially. Today, you will discover practically almost any electronic gizmo and tools on the Internet, from cameras plus camcorders to computer spare parts and video games consoles.”

  21. I have been absent for a while, but now I remember why I used to love this website. Thank you, I will try and check back more often. How frequently you update your web site?

  22. I do consider all the ideas you’ve introduced on your post. They’re very convincing and can definitely work. Still, the posts are very brief for novices. May just you please lengthen them a bit from next time? Thanks for the post.

  23. Thanks for these pointers. One thing I should also believe is credit cards offering a 0% interest often lure consumers in with zero rate, instant authorization and easy on the net balance transfers, nonetheless beware of the main factor that will probably void your current 0% easy neighborhood annual percentage rate and throw you out into the terrible house rapid.

  24. I just want to say I’m newbie to blogs and seriously liked you’re web page. Most likely I’m want to bookmark your site . You surely have exceptional posts. Regards for sharing with us your blog site.

  25. I just want to tell you that I’m new to weblog and truly savored this web-site. Very likely I’m going to bookmark your blog post . You certainly come with terrific stories. Thanks a lot for sharing with us your website page.

  26. There are incredibly a great deal of details like that to think about. This is a excellent point to start up. I provide you with the thoughts above as general inspiration but clearly you can find questions much like the one you start up where biggest thing will probably be doing work in honest good faith. I don?t determine if recommendations have emerged around things like that, but Most likely that a job is clearly referred to as a fair game. Both girls and boys glance at the impact of just a moment’s pleasure, throughout their lives.

  27. All of our dreams can come true…’ By Walt Disney

  28. Pretty! This has been an incredibly wonderful article. Thanks for supplying this information.

Deja tu comentario

Tu dirección email no será publicada.